16 POINT CHECKLIST – THE BULLY BAROMETER

This is a useful checklist to evaluate whether or not your relationship qualifies as abusive. If you say yes to twelve or more of the items in this list, your relationship qualifies as abusive. From WHEN LOVING HIM HURTS – ON LINE

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Emotional abuse of a misogynist

WHEN LOVING HIM HURTS Click to buy   When we begin the love relationship it offers the promise of “happily ever after”. We feel excited, safe, strong, and beautiful and ready for what we only intellectually accept will be the

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Finding the Golden Goose in Abuse

You know how you thought that when you met the man of your dreams he would change? And he did. For the worst. But you still held onto him because you believed that having anybody was better than having nobody.

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Thank you Michael Moore – Democrats, are you listening to him now?

I am a South Africa immigrant and grew up during Apartheid. I became a US citizen and this was the first election I was able to vote. At the start of the election cycle, I was overcome with feeli… Source:

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Thank you Michael Moore – Democrats, are you listening to him now?

  I am a South Africa immigrant and grew up during Apartheid. I became a US citizen and this was the first election I was able to vote. At the start of the election cycle, I was overcome with feelings

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Cooking Co-dependency Away – Feta Salad with Crispy Vegetable

 Amounts may vary, depending on the number of people at your table. Tomatoes cut into quarters English cucumbers, sliced Baby carrots Scallions, chopped red peppers Steamed sugar snap peas Kalamata olives feta cheese Deep fry the following in batches until

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The 1 thing you should do to guarantee relationship success – Check Your Mate

Excerpt from The Affair – by Sue Hickey and Philippa Sklaar http://ow.ly/Z7XG3054DEc If you’re thinking of getting married or starting a serious relationship, Check Your Mate on the list below. Don’t even think of embarking on a romance without it –

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Hags for Halloween – “Women have become sanitized into our own ineptitude”

   Tonight the specters, ghosts, vampires, witches and wizards will be out to play. This ancient Celtic ritual designed to protect harvested crops from the “underworld” is now a fun evening for children to dress up in their ghoulish best.

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You know when you thought when you met the man of your dreams he would change?

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When Loving Him Hurts Blog

Sue and I started a blog when we began to write When Loving Him Hurts. Please click on the link to take you to WHEN LOVING HIM HURTS website.   I will include some of them here.  I’ I’m not sure how

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